Forget, Regroup and Repeat

My niece is part of my Mom's "village" she has incredible patience with her and I feel like I learn from her. My Mom is in a part of her disease where she gets easily aggravated and can say not very nice words and as soon as she says them she forgets and then is cherry and happy again although she gets over it in a blink of an eye it's a bit harder for us who do by forget so easily but we have to regroup fast and not act hurt form her words that can sting and repeat everything hoping for a different result. So that's where "forget, regroup and repeat" comes from.